Nancy Reeves

Nancy Reeves

I was transplanted from a small town in Nebraska in 1974. Since then I've graduated from three local post-secondary schools, lived in four local communities (in three counties), worked in three more (in three counties), taught high school (Shaw High School - East Cleveland), and parented a daughter through pretty much the polar opposite school system (Manchester).

I'm a mom, spouse, chief medical researcher and manager for far too many complex family medical matters, and a Quaker.

To make ends meet I've been paid as a teacher (at multiple levels, in multiple subjects, and for multiple institutions), a seamstress, a reporter for the Suburbanite (the public meeting beat for township and school board meetings), an enrolled agent, and an attorney. For non-monetary compensation - but sometimes a lot more real compensation - I am a photographer and digital retouch artist for Now I Lay Me Down to Sleep and the local music booster's club, member of the local bike patrol, and caregiver for 0-3 year olds for a week once a year. Just for fun (or perhaps to find a place phones can't follow me), I occasionally go diving.

...and I'll be transparent about more of who I am as it becomes relevant to conversations I'm engaged in.

My Soap Box

Incivility matters, so let's fix it

I responded to Dave Scott: Yes - we mostly agree.  Discussing motivations among parties engaged in a conversation can be...

Dave Scott

Nancy, I think we are largely in agreement. If I understand you (and correct me if I am wrong) understanding motivation can be important, but there is a fine line toward incivility that must not be crossed. I would add... Continue reading

Incivility matters, so let's fix it

I responded to Bill Lyons: Changing the picture would be up to Dan/the Civic Commons team.  Photos don't usually change over...

Bill Lyons

Thanks Nancy.  Glad to hear I am not the only one to see it. Since we know how powerful images can be, do you think there is any chance the ABJ will find another photo?  Really enjoying our conversations.

Let's Talk about Talking 'bout

I responded to Nancy Reeves: At the 10,000 foot level:  Now that the enthusiasm of the first game or two has worn off, much of...

Nancy Reeves

Second question:  What is the Civic Commons doing that it could do better? Again, I'll add my own answer in a couple of days - but I hope you will chime in both on this question and on the first one.  And - in a few days... Continue reading

Let's Talk about Talking 'bout

I responded to Let's Talk about Talking 'bout: After more distraction than I bargained for (and obviously more than a couple of days), I’m back...

Incivility matters, so let's fix it

I responded to Bill Lyons: Interesting observation.  That had not occurred to me - likely because I recognize the image from...

Bill Lyons

Dan-- Initially I thought the images would change over time.  Since they have not I wonder why the paper decided to label this conversation thread with a photo that looks like an angry president Obama arguing with a... Continue reading

Incivility matters, so let's fix it

I responded to Dave Scott: I think having conversations in which motives are explored is different from assuming motives and...

Dave Scott

Understanding motive is a key to understanding a person's point of view. Some people only take views that are exppediant to them. Others take views that at least partially help others. But to a great extent, understand... Continue reading

Coloring the way to mergers

I responded to Jason Russell: East Cleveland is certainly a prime example of white flight.  "East Cleveland went from 98...

Jason Russell

Alex, You bring up some very good points, especially when it comes to "active poaching", I don't think there are any cities out there who are sending people out to convince businesses to move within their borders. But... Continue reading

Incivility matters, so let's fix it

I responded to Bill Lyons: Your points are good ones, but a gentle reminder that there are faith traditions for which Sunday...

Bill Lyons

Agreed with David and Nancy.  Another place to look:  KSU has a good conflict management program and so does UA.  One of the best books ever written on this, in my view, is Getting to Yes.  We might also check out Gandhi's... Continue reading

Has government outstripped our ability to understand?

I responded to Peter Comings: Thanks.  The story you initially linked to read as if delving into reconciling the robocalls...

Peter Comings

For the specific topic of the paramedic levy, this link is to 14 stories we have run this year in the run up to the August polling. Continue reading

Has government outstripped our ability to understand?

I responded to Peter Comings: What was going on doesn't seem that complex to me, and the reporter did a decent job of pulling...

Peter Comings

The answer to the title question might seem obvious, but then what is the remedy? The Press ran a story this week about a failed paramedic levy in Avon Lake and now starts a new round of letters from readers looking for... Continue reading